Me Too

Me Too

‘Me too’ is a say, shaped recently, when some sex related activities, the supreme pleasantries of one’s life’ turn to produce a can of worms for our society. Sex organs are integral parts of our body’s reproductive system. It is comparable to other systems of our body like digestive system for digestion of food, cardiovascular that functions for blood circulations, nervous system for psycho-neural function etc. All of them maintain and sustain our living system from gestation to old age and death.   

Our creator, ‘the All mighty’ with no physical shape and beyond our mental comprehension is one revered being and He is a master craftsman. He shaped the universe and other many things, those we can’t imagine or comprehend. The human beings are some meanest part of a minute most section of His creation. They are given   a mind - well advanced to contemplate everything around, imagine any matter in his environment, consider and apply conscience to control natural urges and try to comprehend everything about everything around.

                What is the objective of life? It is a frequent question – probably nobody ever found an answer. The true and real and scientific answer is that Living ones are bestowed with two important responsibilities by their Creator. One is to maintain their own life and it’s sustenance for which they need energy for bodily growth, ability for fighting against external enemies. The other is to maintain procreation of future generation by complex system, called reproductive system which maintains perpetuation of their species. Both the systems, self-maintenance and procreation, are regulated by their physiological organs in body  discussed above. Others included are organs of special senses which maintain sight, smell, hearing, taste and touch. Glands secreting hormones like thyroid, pancreas, renal and sex glands also have their control on human body physiology. All these are further influenced by neuro-psychic mechanism and the volitional centers in brain. Autonomic nervous system, a special neural system, controls some of our organic functions like heart rate, digestion, urination, sexual arousal and sudden adjustment of one’s body in fearful and alarming situations. This system also keeps all body organs living after brain death – a vegetative life.

            All the systems of our body continue to develop, since the ovum and sperm fuse to start a living process (the fetus) in mother’s womb. At birth sex organs remain rudimentary unlike others and their neural (sensitive) aspects remains but with minimal function; they continue growing gradually until maturity.  

      Sex activities are controlled, naturally, in animals according to their estrous cycle in females and physical strength of males in response to estrous timing. Similarly in birds’ males get cyclic stimulation and exhibit activities like colorful dancing, singing etc. But more complex functions in humanity prevail. Pre-matured sex desire starts as early as 3 to 4 years & Post maturity augmentation occurs at 11to 14 years of age. It is augmented by neurological, psychological and glandular factors. Premature sex desire, in reality, is due to inquisitiveness of children to know the difference in organs in both sexes and why it is kept covered by adults and why seniors also attire children from their earliest age.

          Likeness (or love) and hatred (or dejection) prevails among individuals in a society. The likeness, in intensified and enchanting form, when develops between male and female, becomes enthralling especially if sex hormones are active. This state of mental stimulation is love that we glorify. Story, poetry, drama, and cinema are usually attractive when they include love with struggle and sacrifice on it.

        Females are enchanted by males for their bravery, physical strength, socioeconomic status, lucrative professions, and aggressive spirit. Similarly, males feel a magic spell from the females from their beauty, pleasant gestures, appealing gait and bodily curves. Both, males and females differ in the shape of their sex organs which are shaped and placed in such positions of their body to get effective pleasantries of sex that help the process of conception.

          When the humanity was in its primitive status they were not conscious of sex. From morning to evening they were to struggle for food and self-security which gave them less time and energy for amorous pleasures. Nakedness had no meaning for them. As the process of civilization progressed, their cognitive Centre (intelligence and understanding) had a rapid progress. This made them gradually progressive intellectual beings. Storing food, preparing comfortable housing and other amenities gave them restful living, thereby they could think of pleasurable and playful living like singing, dancing, drinking with frequent amorous activities. Fear of danger and violence sometimes creates fear so they preferred living in groups and united together forming societies or tribes. Quarrel -> fight -> war like situations arises for advantages and supremacy. A powerful member become the leader of a group and similarly came out a chieftain (chief of a tribe) or a king. Fighting, wars, invasions, grabbing land, looting wealth, individual fights, and treachery are frequently with purpose of getting eminence. Females of crown beauty are the cherished goal of every man. Naturally ablest persons like a king or an emperor or brave heroes, take any risk for her possession. Epics on contests for women with beauty and elegance are the more exiting chapters in the world history and literature.   

         Females in their natural shape are smaller; their mentality is sober; they are kind; their responsibility to care family specially rearing of children is superb.  Their peace loving mentality keeps their family and society in good existence.   The larger shape, challenging spirit and aggressive activities, give males a superiority complex in society. So men are outsider and females are insider. Modern days claim of equality brings ‘Me Too’, casting couch and similar other problems and cause shattering the sweet relation between male and female.  People with changed personality, effeminate males or masculine females are quite efficient to freely seek their activities in society.

          In some religious practice female are treated with rigorous social restrictions. They are not allowed to go out of home; if she has to go out she must be covered from head to feet except her eyes and be accompanied by a male member of her family. No question of sex scandals and other such problems like ‘Me too, are there.

          The factors like easy nearness, scant covering of body, glancing at others, pretended bodily touches are the ignition for the explosion of volcano of sex desire. Such desires stimulated by naked scenes of news media, modern dance and music or observation of amorous activities of other persons or animals should be considered carefully and brought home to young people. Parents, teachers, religious advisers and elderly members of society should maintain strict vigilance on children from the age of four to fourteen for any waywardness in their behavior. Hormones affecting libido, excess or absence when suspected, health personnel should be consulted. The smart phones at present are going to bring a sea change in male female relation and social norms.

          Keeping petrol and candle together is always apprehended for a fire disaster.  

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